I'm backing into this one.
My mother, daughter of Irish immigrants, was from Brooklyn. I lived in Manhattan most of the time from 1974 to 1982, then moved upstate to be a daily newspaper reporter. I love the city.
I got married, and we took my first child, a daughter, down to a Long Island church to be baptized; then at my mother's house she was held in the arms of her great-grandmother, Mary Gaffney.
Also at that celebration was a friend of mine from the city and her husband. It was one of the last times I saw her because we were drifting out of touch, as people do -- except on 9/11 when I called her house. I don't think it was when I was writing the editorial for the 9/12 Schenectady Daily Gazette, but later, when I got home. I called because she worked for Dean Witter, had survived the first bombing of the World Trade Center in 1993, and was still employed there.
By 9/11, Dean Witter had become part of Morgan Stanley, and its offices were in the second tower to be hit, between the 43rd and 72nd floors. You may have heard of the company's security chief, Rick Rescorla, one of many true heroes that day. The plane, United Airlines Flight 175, hit between the 77th through 84th floors. It made an enormous noise and swayed the building, my friend told me, as she and her colleagues were walking down underneath.
The aforementioned daughter joined the US Army as a private, married a soldier and started a family, retiring after 16 years with two deployments in Afghanistan and one in Iraq. I am in awe of her achievements and honorable service.
Dorothy Day died in 1980, almost 21 years before 9/11. I was thinking about writing a post here about the latest bureaucratic step toward her possible canonization, but lacked enthusiasm. Not that I oppose the process. While Dorothy was famously dismissive about people calling her a saint, in the non-official sense she obviously was one, as a faithful Catholic and transparently good person.
Opinions are -- steering into safe cliché to avoid a more scatological one which comes to mind -- a dime a dozen. My editorial about 9/11 was conventionally hawkish. I wrote a column I liked better, about the hundreds of firemen and cops who died. In 2003, the Gazette downsized me out of the Opinion Department back to the news side of the operation, where objectivity was my goal.
It can be a sketchy business to declare what a dead person would have thought or done about this or that, but I think a couple of uncontroversial statements can be made about a hypothetically living Dorothy in the 21st century, and specifically how she would have responded to 9/11.
She would, like almost everyone else, have grieved for the dead and their families, especially in the city that was her home, and admired the courageous rescuers. She would have done what she could to help -- which would not have involved changing a lifelong habit of declining to vote for presidential candidates. Nor would she have supported any of the wars.
I am still not all the way won over to her pacifism. But observing the history of this century from the Mideast to Ukraine, the case I think she could have made is overwhelming my defenses. Not entirely. When I hear of African Christians being massacred by jihadis, I think they have the right to defend themselves, their families and neighbors. But my increasing instinct, argument, hope and prayer is to avoid war -- including civil war -- and make peace.







